You Were Trained to Obey. No One Taught You How to Choose.
Why Life Gets Harder After You Leave
I thought leaving would fix it.
No more hypervigilance about my thoughts. No more Sunday performances. No more constant monitoring of whether I was worthy enough, faithful enough, enough.
And yes, I got more time. More space. Fewer rules.
But I also got unmoored.
Not peaceful. Not free. Uncontained.
Like someone dropped me in t…
